Good relationship

Everyone wants to maintain good relationship with their partner throughout the life. But some received success in this and other not able to maintain this (or they simply carry this relationship throughout the life as a social responsibility). These days many Bollywood movies based upon this issue, the movies which totally based upon this issue are Salam Namaste, KANK, Metro and Delhi Heights.

According to these movies, at the starting time of relationship the life was going cool because both were new to each other (opposite sex interact each other in the starting). After some time when this thing not matter then they are trying to notice each other behavior on every incident. This type of investigation will be the starting point to break your good relationship.

I learned some points to maintain good relationship from my married friends:

1. Good Listener: Lack of communication is very frustrating to partner but if you are also not a good listener then you will make your partner dander. Most of the people concentrate more on television than our wives or girlfriend. Most women want to talk about personal things that directly related to their life, family or friends.

2. Don’t forget the occasion: We all know that whenever husband forgets the birthday, anniversary, or important dates (something special like when we meet first time and etc.) that make women frustrating. For good relationship it is very serious point and should never happen again. These occasional celebrations make closer to both of you.

3. Know People: Every woman want to introduce their family and friends, but men always not interested in this. The woman wants to make these people, important part of their life, which will help in the bad time. And women also expect this from her husband.

4. Professional Life: Always keep distance between your personal and professional life. For example consider the case: When you got married with person of same profession (and also working in competing company). In this scenario, don’t try to investigate what is going on their professional life.

5. Sharing household chores: It is quite astonishing, when you are sharing household chores. It is the key of successful marriage life. Both man and woman have different perception about household chores. If you speak separately from both, you will receive different answer. Mr. will say, he is very helpful and madam answer would be, she’s doing the entire job.
All man have different thinking about what are the household chores: Making a food twice a week, cleaning of garbage, ironing his shirts and shopping for filling the fridge. So, it’s up to you, how you handle household chores.

My dear friends the above points applicable on both men's (jamana to hai naukar biwi ka..) and woman’s(kudio ka hai jamana..) for making good relationship.

Love Ke Liye Kuch Nahi Karega

This post dedicated to the people who want something special in their life without doing any effort and people who want something special but sometime not (their target is not consistent). Some people around me have these type thinking.

One of the people around me like someone very much, but don’t have guts to say magic words from their heart. We always propel them for doing this, with many ways. But these people never go ahead, I don’t know why? When the queen/king of his heart talking to someone else, at that time personality of this type of people converted into Gullu(Bad Man)/ShashiKala(Wamp). We had given many chances to him/her for doing something, but nothing happen (they unable to take initiative). After that he/she told us, I am not that type of person and I have some ethics in my life (simple living) which I never cross like other people do (Like Hum Mata ke bhakt hai wado ke sakht hai akash se hum aye aur wado ke sakht hai).

Now I am moving towards the second type of people, who don’t know what they need in their life. Its mean sometime they like him/her, in other instance they told us, I am not interested. They already told everybody don’t mingle with him/her. They also convey their message towards him/her with the help of intercessor, but don’t able to convey their words (which comes from heart) directly to the target (Like Chupana bhi nahi ata.. batana bhi nahi ata, humein tumse mohabat hai jatana bhi nahi ata). We always ready to help him/her. But he/she is thinking that we are joking and doing something buggy in their way of love (Pyar ke rastein mein kantein hai).

Now my dear friends don’t take time to tell magic words to your loved one. I learned these lines from Bollywood movies, so before taking action please think twice.