Sunday, June 22, 2008

How to make your relationship strong and partner happy:

For making your life good without misunderstanding you need to take care of your partner. It will give you the great feeling. Make her or him happy by understanding her or his needs.

But every person is unique and so it’s not easy to make every person’s happy. Some people are very short tempered; in that case one of the partners should be calm because if both would be short tempered then some consequences might be occurred. So being patient is a must to make the relationship works. And do not make any negative comments to each other regardless how mad you are. Because words hurts more than a kick in your face. This level of support and understanding creates a foundation for developing an individual’s full potential and his feelings of satisfaction and fulfillment which allows him/her to give their all.

It’s good you are spending quality time with each other but also give time to your partner for doing work. It’s mean every person have some work to do, at that time don’t feel bad. This situation builds negative thoughts in the good relationship.

After some years of marriage both become very used to each other, despite that both are having some bad habits. They know that these habits not like by other one, instead of removing these habits we give the excuse that it’s too late for me to quit/remove these habits. If you want to make your partner happy, it would be good that you try to change/remove your bad habits. We can choose to change our habits and brighten our future. It is never too late.

We all know that whenever partner forgets the birthday, anniversary, or important dates (something special like when we meet first time and etc.) that make other partner frustrating. For good relationship it is very serious point and should never happen again. These occasional celebrations make closer to both of you.In that occasion gifts played the important role. Gifts make the relationship strong. In the good relationship and love, the cost of gifts doesn’t matter but the feeling of person who is giving that gifts only matter. You don't have to do anything huge in a new or fairly new relationship, but flowers are nice. A card is always cool too. When you are giving a gift, you are conveying a message with it. The right type of gift can convey your message clearly and perfectly.

It’s good you are spending quality time with each other but also give time to your partner for doing work. It’s mean every person have some work to do, at that time don’t feel bad. This situation builds negative thoughts in the good relationship.

In the relationship many partners don’t like to talk about love. They don’t know how express feeling to make other partner happy (its mean he/she is very special in my life) and wait for the other partner to take initiative. In the relationship male partner hesitate in telling female partner that I love u but they act differently to express this feeling. The female partner not feels happy unless they hear those golden words, I LOVE U. The male partner also wants to hear these words from the female partner. The meaning of love vary from men to men, some men think that in the serious relationship these words never come , some said that these golden words comes automatically in serious relationship, or some understand these words after spending a lot of time in the relationship. Its mean whenever men understand the feeling and respect from female partner then they automatically know what is the importance of these golden words (I LOVE U) in their life, it can be happen in any stage of life. In the LOVE, care/respect/understanding are the important pillars. The LOVE without these pillars is like LUST. These perceptions also true in the case of women. But women not take initiative in that case. They first want to know that the hands (men) in which she is giving her life is of what type and what is the meaning of LOVE for him. The meaning of what type is not that she is doing testing of yours, its means she is analyzing your behavior/attitude towards the different scenario/condition of the real life. They (female) closely analyze the each and every step taken by the men in relationship, after that she makes her perceptive about love (the golden words). It would be wonderful if partners in relationship understand these golden words, I LOVE U and don’t wait for the other partner, for telling these golden words.

In the relationship, every small thing is very important. These small things can make your partner happy. For example make a special dish (the dish like by your partner) for your partner for giving surprise/pleasure/importance, a surprise which contain the feeling of yourself about your partner and anything unexpected and small. You know that for achieving great pleasure in your life you need to take care of each and every small thing.

Many of us spend more time at work place that becomes the backdrop for us many time.Spending more time at work place render differences in personal life. Because at work place, many of us forget about the family and engaged in their work but at that time some one in the family need our presence. Some time for help/work and in other role. But they don't know we are working for endurance. So for removing differences between these two life we need to take care of requirement which belong to these two life. For this there is no arduous rule it will depend upon the thinking level of person.

For making your partner happy, YOU must be happy first. Happiness is contagious, and if you’re happy with life, your energy will affect people around you in a positive way. Take care with what kind of relationships you form and the people that you spend time with.



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Based in Bangalore, INDIA, Amit is a Sitecore MVP and MCC. He has an MCA from the U.P.T.U., INDIA and holds certifications including Sitecore and SharePoint 2007/2010. He is an contributor to Sitecore/MSDN communities and Amit have experience in Sitecore, ASP.Net with C#, MVC, SharePoint, Classic ASP, VB,Macros,HTML,JavaScript,JSON,BootStrap and AngularJS.


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